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A New Martial Arts Home

Last week ended up being incredibly and unexpectedly busy–and for a spectacular reason.

I found a new place to train.

This is not a small thing.

I moved to Colorado a year ago, mind. Though I didn’t spend every moment of the last twelve months seeking out a new dojo-home, I invested a great deal of energy looking up schools and instructors online, asking around, and spending more than a few hours sitting or standing in parking lots watching classes through storefront windows.

That watching-classes part quickly became depressing. I wasn’t looking at how marvelous the students were. I was watching how instructors managed their class and interacted with students… and never once came away thinking, “I’m impressed!” In fact, I never walked away thinking, “Wow, good job.” I wasn’t looking for a school that taught the exact art I’ve learned for the last fifteen-ish years–that’s impossible for many reasons--but was looking for quality instruction and school community.

Yeah, I’m picky. And I don’t apologize for it. But it did leave me with nothing but exhausted options by summer’s start. Then summer was too crazy-busy to expend energy on the search. Then I hit September, was tipping into depression at the prospect of letting yet more months pass without a martial arts home.

So I expanded my search and found a listing for a small school a few more miles away. Rather, I re-found it. It’s a school I’d set aside very early in my search because I thought it was a little too far away. But now that I know non-highway routes and backroads, it’s fairly easy to get to.

I sent off a little note eight days ago asking for a get-to-know you appointment. Last Monday, I received an answer. Tuesday morning, I arrived to meet the husband and wife team running the school. I started classes that evening, and have since spent about ten hours training.

And I feel MARVELOUS.

After observing my kata, the head of the school said I had plenty of the yang and he’d like to teach me the yin. He started me on a couple forms–White Crane and Tai Chi–and shared the applications of the movements so I’d start with an understanding of the form rather than its mere memorization.

Husband and wife invited to come in to train during any class I wanted. I love what I learned, I loved how he taught, and during the evening classes, I absolutely loved the camaraderie and collaborative work between all students.

And when he said he’d been waiting for someone who wanted to also teach, I started getting all teary-eyed.

And the topper: I spent Saturday morning observing their kids’ classes, and got all teary-eyed again. They teach young people the way I like to teach young people. They give their young students the respect, attention, and open-heartedness I was looking for.

I am in the right place, and I’m so very glad I chose to be picky.

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sartorias
Sep. 27th, 2016 03:55 am (UTC)
Woohoo!!!
blairmacg
Sep. 28th, 2016 07:11 pm (UTC)
That was my reaction on the drive home! :)
lwe
Sep. 27th, 2016 05:31 am (UTC)
I am so glad for you!
blairmacg
Sep. 28th, 2016 07:11 pm (UTC)
Thank you!!
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blairmacg
Sep. 28th, 2016 07:11 pm (UTC)
It is! I felt alive again. :)
danceswithwaves
Sep. 27th, 2016 03:41 pm (UTC)
Yay! Sounds wonderful.
blairmacg
Sep. 28th, 2016 07:12 pm (UTC)
Incredibly so. I feel very fortunate.
gnibbles
Sep. 27th, 2016 04:23 pm (UTC)
Gleeful hugs offered! :D :D :D
blairmacg
Sep. 28th, 2016 07:12 pm (UTC)
Yay, hugs back!! :)
green_knight
Sep. 27th, 2016 07:14 pm (UTC)
*I'm* all teary-eyed now.

And I hear you so hard on the 'being picky' and it's so hard to express that without sounding like a snob, but yes, it matters so much.
blairmacg
Sep. 28th, 2016 07:13 pm (UTC)
Exactly so. :-)
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